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-===== Key to a great relationship and a happy marriage... =====+==== Key to a great relationship and a happy marriage... ====
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 I BELIEVE THAT WE MUST GIVE 100% (our all) REGARDLESS OF WHAT WE GET BACK.\\ I BELIEVE THAT WE MUST GIVE 100% (our all) REGARDLESS OF WHAT WE GET BACK.\\
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 == by David Maree == == by David Maree ==
-  * **Communication:**     Open, honest, and respectful communication helps resolve conflicts and build trust.+  * **Communication:**     100% Open, honest, and respectful communication helps resolve conflicts and build trust.
   * **Let go:**     Don't hold on to the past. Let it go. Don't hold grudges and resentment.    * **Let go:**     Don't hold on to the past. Let it go. Don't hold grudges and resentment. 
   * **Trust:**     Trusting each other 100% is fundamental to a strong, long-lasting relationship. Distrust breeds insecurities, and insecurities and distrust KILLS RELATIONSHIPS.    * **Trust:**     Trusting each other 100% is fundamental to a strong, long-lasting relationship. Distrust breeds insecurities, and insecurities and distrust KILLS RELATIONSHIPS. 
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 ==== Remember to always... ==== ==== Remember to always... ====
   * Hold hands more...   * Hold hands more...
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   * How's work more...   * How's work more...
 **...there's NEVER too much of these**. **...there's NEVER too much of these**.
-===== DOES THE OTHER PERSON MATTER TO YOU? =====+ 
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 +==== FROM LUST TO TRUST – DEEPER INTIMACY IN LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIPS ==== 
 +**REAL RELATIONSHIPS ARE NOT BUILT ON LUST – THEY ARE BUILT ON TRUST** 
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 +  * The best sex doesn’t happen at the beginning of a relationship. 
 +  * The first ±3 months are **lust**: all chemistry, instinct, imagination, and urgency. 
 +  * You're not connecting with the **real person** — you're connecting with the *idea* of them. 
 +  * Don't meet or connect in a club or a bar. 
 +    * Your brain is wired for short-term rewards. 
 +  * For a meaningful connection, meet at a coffee shop or a park. IN THE DAY. 
 +  * Early sex feels explosive, like a match in a dry forest — fast, exciting, but fragile. 
 +  * Long-term intimacy, when nurtured, is like neutrinos moving through matter — silent, unstoppable, and profoundly real. 
 +  * You can’t rely on lust to build a connection — you must **build** something deeper through **presence**, **trust**, **honour** and **respect**. 
 +  * Most couples never learn how to **build tension inside trust** — they drift into routine, parenting, stress, and lose polarity. 
 +  * When the spark fades, they either give up or chase someone new — mistaking lust for connection. 
 +  * Real intimacy comes from: 
 +    * Showing up with **presence**, 
 +    * Holding onto **difference**, 
 +    * Creating **tension without conflict**, 
 +    * Feeling **safe but still magnetically pulled** to each other. 
 +  * Lust is imagined — **real desire is built**. 
 +  * Presence fades, not desire. 
 +  * You can’t recreate “new,” but you **can recreate the pull** — over and over again. 
 +  * When both people hold space, carry presence, and respect the polarity — sex becomes a form of **reconnection**, not routine. 
 +  * This is not about becoming someone new — it’s about being **fully seen as yourself**, again. 
 +  * Most couples never get here — not because they can’t, but because they didn’t know it was possible. 
 +  * **From lust to trust** — that’s the important shift. 
 +  * Simply changing from a **closed relationship** to an **open relationship** will never truly “fix” a relationship that is already broken, unsatisfactory or unstable. 
 + 
 +That’s the difference. 
 + 
 +**PS** 
 +  * Opening the relationship may **distract from the root issues**, but it does **not resolve** them. 
 +  * If communication, trust, respect, and emotional connection are damaged, no amount of new partners or freedom will rebuild what’s missing. 
 +  * Open relationships work only when built from a foundation of **deep trust**, **emotional maturity**, and **mutual agreement** — not as a patch for unresolved pain. 
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 +=== DOES THE OTHER PERSON MATTER TO YOU? ===
 ==== Show them !!!!==== ==== Show them !!!!====
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-===== FINANCE =====+---- 
 + 
 +==== FINANCE ====
 ==== Relationship KILLER ==== ==== Relationship KILLER ====
 ==== Financial Teamwork is a Relationship SAVER ==== ==== Financial Teamwork is a Relationship SAVER ====
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 A quick look at two popular budgeting frameworks for managing personal finances: A quick look at two popular budgeting frameworks for managing personal finances:
  
-^ Category           ^ 50/30/20 Rule                         ^ 75/15/10 Rule                          ^+^ Category           ^ 50/30/20 Rule *                         ^ 75/15/10 Rule                          ^
 | **Essentials**     | 50% – Needs                          | 75% – Core Expenses (Living Costs)     | | **Essentials**     | 50% – Needs                          | 75% – Core Expenses (Living Costs)     |
 |                    | Housing, utilities, food, transport  | Rent, bills, food, essentials          | |                    | Housing, utilities, food, transport  | Rent, bills, food, essentials          |
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 === Key Differences === === Key Differences ===
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 +  * ** 50/30/20 *** gives more flexibility and balance between needs, wants, and savings – great for general financial discipline.
   * **75/15/10** is more conservative, prioritizing living expenses heavily – good for high-cost areas or tighter budgets.   * **75/15/10** is more conservative, prioritizing living expenses heavily – good for high-cost areas or tighter budgets.
-  * **50/30/20** gives more flexibility and balance between needs, wants, and savings – great for general financial discipline. 
  
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 **It's all about creating a balanced and practical plan for your money.** **It's all about creating a balanced and practical plan for your money.**
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-====== Fun Fact: The Power of Wealth (And What *You* Can Do) ======+==== Fun Fact 2025: The Power of Wealth (And What *You* Can Do) ====
  
 **There are approximately 3,028 Billionaires in the world**, controlling **US$16.1 Trillion** in total net worth. \\ **There are approximately 3,028 Billionaires in the world**, controlling **US$16.1 Trillion** in total net worth. \\
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 === Imagine This === === Imagine This ===
 What if just **10%** of that total wealth went toward global betterment annually?   What if just **10%** of that total wealth went toward global betterment annually?  
-* Solar infrastructure.   +  * Solar infrastructure.   
-* Environmental restoration.   +  * Environmental restoration.   
-* Public health and education upliftment.  +  * Public health and education upliftment.  
  
-The world would be transformed, year after year. But... that's not how it's going (yet).+The world would be transformed, year after year. \\ 
 +But... that's not how it's going (yet).
  
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 In **2019**, **my family and I donated trees** to a nature reserve.  \\ In **2019**, **my family and I donated trees** to a nature reserve.  \\
 In **2029**, those trees will be converting **980 tons of fresh oxygen per year**.  \\ In **2029**, those trees will be converting **980 tons of fresh oxygen per year**.  \\
-That’s real. That’s making a difference for the benifit of....\\+That’s real. That’s making a difference for the benefit of....\\
  
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 **→ Everyone can do something. Start where you are, with what you have.**   **→ Everyone can do something. Start where you are, with what you have.**  
 The world needs *you*, not your millions. The world needs *you*, not your millions.
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 +A broad‑leaf Yellowwood that escapes logging, lightning and wind‑throw can easily reach\\
 +600–800 years, quite possibly over a millennium;\\
 +the best growth‑rate data suggest an absolute biological ceiling somewhere around //1 200–1 500 years//\\
 +Anything beyond that has not yet been scientifically confirmed.
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 +^ Seed condition ^ Clean seed mass per tree (kg) ^ Approx. viable seeds / tree / year* ^
 +| Normal year     | 2 – 4 kg       | 3 400 – 11 000 |
 +| Good “mast” year| up to 10 kg    | 17 000 – 28 000 |
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 +*//Rounded from://*
 +  * Seeds / kg = (1 000 g ÷ 0.36 – 0.60 g) ≈ 1 700 – 2 800 raw seeds  
 +  * × 80 % average viability → ≈ 1 400 – 2 200 viable seeds / kg  
 +  * Multiplied by the kilogram range shown above.
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