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   * The best sex doesn’t happen at the beginning of a relationship.   * The best sex doesn’t happen at the beginning of a relationship.
   * The first ±3 months are **lust**: all chemistry, instinct, imagination, and urgency.   * The first ±3 months are **lust**: all chemistry, instinct, imagination, and urgency.
-  * You're not connecting with the *real person* — you're connecting with the *idea* of them.+  * You're not connecting with the **real person** — you're connecting with the *idea* of them.
   * Don't meet or connect in a club or a bar.   * Don't meet or connect in a club or a bar.
     * Your brain is wired for short-term rewards.     * Your brain is wired for short-term rewards.
   * For a meaningful connection, meet at a coffee shop or a park. IN THE DAY.   * For a meaningful connection, meet at a coffee shop or a park. IN THE DAY.
   * Early sex feels explosive, like a match in a dry forest — fast, exciting, but fragile.   * Early sex feels explosive, like a match in a dry forest — fast, exciting, but fragile.
-  * Long-term intimacy, when nurtured, is like ringing a deep town bell — strong, real, and resonant. +  * Long-term intimacy, when nurtured, is like neutrinos moving through matter — silent, unstoppable, and profoundly real. 
-  * You can’t rely on lust to build a connection — you must **build** something deeper through **presence** and **trust**.+  * You can’t rely on lust to build a connection — you must **build** something deeper through **presence**, **trust**, **honour** and **respect**.
   * Most couples never learn how to **build tension inside trust** — they drift into routine, parenting, stress, and lose polarity.   * Most couples never learn how to **build tension inside trust** — they drift into routine, parenting, stress, and lose polarity.
   * When the spark fades, they either give up or chase someone new — mistaking lust for connection.   * When the spark fades, they either give up or chase someone new — mistaking lust for connection.
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   * This is not about becoming someone new — it’s about being **fully seen as yourself**, again.   * This is not about becoming someone new — it’s about being **fully seen as yourself**, again.
   * Most couples never get here — not because they can’t, but because they didn’t know it was possible.   * Most couples never get here — not because they can’t, but because they didn’t know it was possible.
-  * **From lust to trust** — that’s the important shift. +  * **From lust to trust** — that’s the important shift. 
 +  * Simply changing from a **closed relationship** to an **open relationship** will never truly “fix” a relationship that is already broken, unsatisfactory or unstable.
  
 That’s the difference. That’s the difference.
  
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 +  * Opening the relationship may **distract from the root issues**, but it does **not resolve** them. 
 +  * If communication, trust, respect, and emotional connection are damaged, no amount of new partners or freedom will rebuild what’s missing. 
 +  * Open relationships work only when built from a foundation of **deep trust**, **emotional maturity**, and **mutual agreement** — not as a patch for unresolved pain.
  
-==== DOES THE OTHER PERSON MATTER TO YOU? ====+---- 
 +=== DOES THE OTHER PERSON MATTER TO YOU? ===
 ==== Show them !!!!==== ==== Show them !!!!====
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 ==== FINANCE ==== ==== FINANCE ====
 ==== Relationship KILLER ==== ==== Relationship KILLER ====
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 A quick look at two popular budgeting frameworks for managing personal finances: A quick look at two popular budgeting frameworks for managing personal finances:
  
-^ Category           ^ 50/30/20 Rule                         ^ 75/15/10 Rule                          ^+^ Category           ^ 50/30/20 Rule *                         ^ 75/15/10 Rule                          ^
 | **Essentials**     | 50% – Needs                          | 75% – Core Expenses (Living Costs)     | | **Essentials**     | 50% – Needs                          | 75% – Core Expenses (Living Costs)     |
 |                    | Housing, utilities, food, transport  | Rent, bills, food, essentials          | |                    | Housing, utilities, food, transport  | Rent, bills, food, essentials          |
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 === Key Differences === === Key Differences ===
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 +  * ** 50/30/20 *** gives more flexibility and balance between needs, wants, and savings – great for general financial discipline.
   * **75/15/10** is more conservative, prioritizing living expenses heavily – good for high-cost areas or tighter budgets.   * **75/15/10** is more conservative, prioritizing living expenses heavily – good for high-cost areas or tighter budgets.
-  * **50/30/20** gives more flexibility and balance between needs, wants, and savings – great for general financial discipline. 
  
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 **It's all about creating a balanced and practical plan for your money.** **It's all about creating a balanced and practical plan for your money.**
  
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 === Imagine This === === Imagine This ===
 What if just **10%** of that total wealth went toward global betterment annually?   What if just **10%** of that total wealth went toward global betterment annually?  
-* Solar infrastructure.   +  * Solar infrastructure.   
-* Environmental restoration.   +  * Environmental restoration.   
-* Public health and education upliftment.  +  * Public health and education upliftment.  
  
-The world would be transformed, year after year. But... that's not how it's going (yet).+The world would be transformed, year after year. \\ 
 +But... that's not how it's going (yet).
  
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 In **2019**, **my family and I donated trees** to a nature reserve.  \\ In **2019**, **my family and I donated trees** to a nature reserve.  \\
 In **2029**, those trees will be converting **980 tons of fresh oxygen per year**.  \\ In **2029**, those trees will be converting **980 tons of fresh oxygen per year**.  \\
-That’s real. That’s making a difference for the benifit of....\\+That’s real. That’s making a difference for the benefit of....\\
  
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